Reasons why dating is not good to Teenager
Christian teenager shall focus now on their relationship to God. Today world most temptations are surrounded to them. Some youths and teenagers are sometimes bugging on the good way. They ignore religious activities and youth empowerment action of the churches. They let themselves on their own ways, like on what they observe in their community. Dating is one of the popular topics in millennial community. They are belligerent on courting. Fascinating to someone they seek to be with. Base on their criterion. However, dating for me in an early age can cause fornication, destruction of morality and result into huge sin. The following reasons are possible why the Christian Teenager shall not engage into dating activity.
In young age you shall focus on your relationship to God.
Christian teenagers are aggressively in any chance. By making a decision, by accepting a commitment, for seeking a partner and by doing things that those others did. They want to make a simple way of living. Follow the decision of their parents. In the other hand, teenagers should take their obligation of being a child. What I mean, do not take you at risk. Do not engage on the aged decision or action. Just follow first your mother in a good way. At your aged the gnawing decision is in your parents. They mold you first by guiding you. In their way as a Christian they sent you in a church. For you to understand everything about life and you will be able to apply good moral in your daily life. Establishing a good relationship and fellowship to God at your age is much essential for you to develop precise decision and follow the good path in life ‘til you reach your maturity where you will have a new family.
Destruction of good characteristics as a Christian
Teenagers have no concrete decision. They didn’t know how to handle the situation. If dating will insert in your life and you will have a partner in early age it could be ruined in your life. Your times that are allocated to God are now on your partner. Your daily routine could be changed. There will be a time where your decision is against to the will of your parents and may be soon to the will of God. Because dating in teen age will destruct your good characteristics as a Christian.
Unnecessary temptation can result into sin
Being a Christian we are apple of the eye of a devil. Temptation is so close to us. A little move of our hand can take to evilness if we follow our own will. Dating can cause unnecessary temptations to mate. How it is happened? Sex hormones arouse in your age. Fornication is possible at the moment you will set together. That could be turns into sin to God. Unnecessary temptations are possible to happen while you in a relationship. That is why dating is not necessarily enough at your age.
Dating commitment can be greater than God commitment
If you are in a relationship, you are committing another obligation and sometimes promises. Then for you to have a good relationship in your mate, you shall follow on what she/he wants. Make him/her to be happy. Arguing to the commitment in your partner will affect your commitment to God. What we are talking about? Commitments that you are settle of being a born again Christian. Your wrong decision can brought unto the wrong way because of following your will not by God.
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